Dear Rodger:
My BF of six months is addicted to porn. He watches it on the Internet at least two nights a week, consistently having a “happy ending” by the time the credits roll. Meanwhile, he and I have a great sex life, which means we have terrific sex at least two nights a week. I don’t want to have sex with him more than two nights a week, but I don’t like it when I ask him if he’s been climaxing while watching porn and he says “yes.” What to do?
Porn Addict’s GF
Dear Porn Addict’s GF ~
How about if you stop asking?
My point is, (1.) if he were lying to you, that would be a problem & (2.) if his watching porn were preventing the two of you from having a fulfilling sex life, that would be a problem.
But from what you’ve said, neither of those possibilities is at issue. The only problem occurs when you ask him a question that you apparently don’t want to hear the answer to . . . & presumably, at this point, pretty much know the answer to anyway.
Rodger
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5 comments:
great answer - in the gay world, porn is a fact of life and nobody questions it - straight chicks just need to chill about their BFS watching it
Watching porn is very damaging for the women whose boyfriends watch it. No woman in a relationship should abide it.
One of my biggest pet peeves is people throwing around the word "addiction" like it is some minor thing liek the way this girl did in her letter. Her boyfriend is not addicted to porn or he would not be able to function without it.
pretty much every girl freaks out about a guy watching porn - most of us watch it any way but don't tell them - easier for every body that way
As long as the guy is not lying to the girl and they are having a lively sex life, I do not see any problem with him watching all the porn he wants to watch.
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