Dear Rodger,
I’ve been dating a guy for about three weeks. During that time, our main dating activity has been going out to dinner. We both work in administrative jobs for similar offices, so I’m guessing we earn about the same amount of money.
The problem is, all six times we have gone out to dinner, I ended up paying every time. What happens is that the waitperson brings the bill and puts it on the table. Either right away or after a little while, Rick reaches for the bill and then I reach for it too. I do this because I don’t want to come across as being cheap. But then Rick always lets go of the bill before I do, so I end up paying.
What has happened to chivalry? When did the tables turn so that the girl always ends up paying the bill?
Tired of Paying
Dear Tired of Paying ~
Don’t reach for the fu#&!!! bill!
If you’ve already paid for six meals in a row, the idea that you’re cheap has been put to rest.
Rodger
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2 comments:
i like the clear/direct advice you give. no therapist type mumble jumble.
I know it's not necessarily feminist of me, but I still expect the guy to pay for dinner, etc. Men make more money, generally speaking.
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