Rodger,
I am very close with several members of my family and I also have a number of dear friends who have been a part of my life for a long time, some of them all the way back to high school. What has me concerned is that every single one of these relatives and friends has told me that they do not like the guy I am dating, even though we are getting serious. This has never ever happened before. There have been times when one or two friends or my older sister has not liked one of my boyfriends, but never ever every single one of them. I am an adult and usually make my own decisions but I am wondering this time if maybe they are seeing something about this guy that I am somehow blind to.
Am I Blind?
Dear Helen Keller ~
One of the red flags that something is wrong with your relationship is when the people who know you best consistently advise you that the guy’s not right for you. You don’t seem to be questioning whether these people care about you, so it definitely sounds like they’re seeing something you aren’t.
Dump the guy.
Rodger
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That's a bit extreme, I think. Perhaps she should ask her friends and relatives to be more specific about their concerns, and then she can see if those are relevant to her, or even accurate. Just because people love you and have your best interests at heart doesn't mean they can be the best judges of what's right for you when it comes to relationships...
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