Rodger:
My BF and I have an excellent sex life. He is very attentive and very responsive, as am I. My one disappointment is that I keep asking him to talk dirty to me during sex, but he keeps refusing. I think dirty talk is fun, and it really turns me on. Should I keep demanding that he talk dirty to me because I like it?
Nasty Boy
Dear Nasty Boy ~
Talking dirty is a skill, just like . . . oh, I don’t know, . . .dancing the jitterbug while wearing 4-inch heels. Some people can do it, many of us can’t.
And from what I hear, talking dirty is one skill that most gay men don’t possess. Indeed, most gay porn stars don’t even make the grade, which is why 85 percent of gay male porn fans hit the mute button rather than listening to the big boys talk.
So, if you & your BF have what you describe as “excellent” sex, I suggest you drop your request that he talk dirty to you & bask in his other sexual talents instead.
Rodger
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just to be clear i want to go on record as saying that gay boys arent the only ones who like dirty talking men - alot of us girls like that too though most guys suck at doing it
LOL! on the high percent of gay dudes who watch porn with the mute on - i thought it was just me!
When some body is bad at talking dirty he can be real real bad. I had a BF like that one time and he thought he was good at it but he really was not good at all. I wished many times that there was a mute button on him that I couldve pushed to shut off his noises.
one time i dated this guy who thought he was good at talking dirty and that it really turned me on but he really sounded so ridiculus that i laughed - not on purpsoe but just automatic like - i never heard from him again after that ever
85% of gay men watch porn without sound? - that's a big surprise to me because i really get turned on by some porn hunk telling the cocksucker "take it, take all of it!" and stuff like that - maybe it's not great dialogue and maybe the guy's no great actor, but, well hell, it gets the job done for me!
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