Dear Rodger—
I am 28 and have been married and divorced twice. Because my friends tell me that I got too serious too fast with my two exes because I married both of them after knowing them five months and seven months, I am now trying to date multiple guys at the same time so I will not get too serious with any one of them too fast. Right now I am dating three guys, but I am feeling very guilty about it. I have told all three that I am dating other guys, but I keep slipping up and getting things wrong about which one has the alcoholic grandmother and which one changed his major from Spanish to chemistry when he was a sophomore in college and details like this. What is the secret to dating multiple guys?
Dizzy Dater
Dear Dizzy Dater ~
It sounds to me like the secret to dating multiple guys, at least for you, is: Don’t do it!
As an alternative approach, how about if you date one guy at a time but commit yourself to not marrying anyone until you’ve dated him for an absolute minimum of one year.
Rodger
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8 comments:
dating multiple men is not that hard at all - it is no different than having several different friends - you have to rememder personal details about their lives just the same
reading the letters you get keeps reminding me day after day how similar straight women dating are to gay men dating - dilemma of juggling multiple men at teh same time, that is so gay men
my problem isnt with trying to remember each guys personal details about relatives and that shit but what kind of sexual things each of the guys likes - that part really sucks because a guy doesnt mind so much if you forget what his dad does for a living but he doesnt like it when you nibble on his ears when hes told you 8 times that he hates that sort of stuff
So I know there aren't many straight guys who read this blog but I am at least one. So I have to respond to this letter and say: Multiple dating! Women are getting more like men all the time!
this girl should do as you say and forget the multiple dating (which is skanky) and date one guy for a year--or longer before she even thinks about marriage
this chick is only 28 and has already been married and divorced twice! whoa, girl! forget the idea of knowing a guy for a year and then getting married - make it three years minimum in your case
This woman has been married two times and divorced two times and now is trying to date multiple men so she can find husbnd number 3. She does not need to be dating even one man. What she needs is a period of not dating any men whatsoever so she can find herself and what she wants. No dating for at least one year.
What I have to say about the letter is that here is a woman who has had two husbands and now has at least three BFs and I cannot seem to find one decent guy.
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