Rodger:
I have been dating a guy who has a good job and is fun to be with. The big minus is that he wears a hairpiece.
It is not an ugly, terribly obvious one. On our first couple dates, I did not even recognize it was a hairpiece. When we went to bed I got close enough to his head to know for sure.
And it is not just that he wears a hairpiece but that he has not confessed that to me after THREE MONTHS of dating.
Betrayed
Dear Betrayed~
First of all, I was tempted to address this response to: Drama Queen.
My temptation was prompted by the fact that you made the statement “he has not confessed” to wearing a hairpiece & that you signed your letter “Betrayed.”
In today’s relationship culture, words such as “confessed” & “betrayed” should be the exclusive property of women whose SOs have done way more than covering a bald head.
Yes, I suppose he should find a way to make a reference to the hairpiece, but I can’t see as how he has to do that within any particular timeframe & I hardly think wearing such a thing is something that he has to “confess” or that should be the reason for you to end the relationship.
Rodger
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my problem with this guy would not be that he is not being fourthcoming about something but that he is so VAIN that he wears a toupee - a big problem for me
This is another example of some girl overthinking the relationship. If she is so concerned about him hearing a hairpiece, she should bring it up herself, or else just enjoy the relationship.
It sounds like trouble to me. If this guy will not talk to the girl about this, who knows what else he will manage to keep secret.
Since this woman has been dating this man for three montsh and seems to be so worked about the "hairpiece" she thinks he is wearing why wouldn't she just ask him about it? Since they have been dating that long surely they talk about topics even sensitive ones.
Forget about dropping the bomb no matter when he does it. A hairpiece is just creepy. No thank you.
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